When your child refuses to visit their other parent, it puts you in a tough spot. You might want to protect them, but you also don’t want to risk violating a court order. Here’s what Arkansas law expects of you, what the courts consider and how to handle it when the visits keep falling apart.
You can’t legally deny court-ordered visitation
You can’t stop court-ordered visits, even when your child doesn’t want to go. Arkansas courts expect you to follow the schedule as written, and the other parent can take legal action if they believe you blocked the visits. The law holds you responsible for making a reasonable effort to follow the order, even when your child resists or refuses to cooperate.
The court may consider your child’s wishes, but not always
Arkansas judges don’t automatically follow what your child wants, but they may listen if the reasons are serious and your child is old enough to explain. The court looks at maturity, not just age, and considers whether your child’s refusal points to something deeper, such as emotional harm or fear. The law focuses on your child’s best interests, not just their preferences.
You need to document what’s happening and why
If your child refuses multiple times, start keeping records. Note what your child said, how you responded and whether you contacted the other parent. Good documentation helps protect you in court, especially if the other side claims you aren’t cooperating. If there’s a pattern or a serious concern behind the refusal, your records can help support any future changes to the order.
When it’s time to take the next step
If your child keeps resisting and the visits no longer work, don’t wait for the situation to spiral. A family law attorney can help you understand whether to seek a custody modification, bring in a counselor or document things more formally so the court sees what’s happening. Taking early, informed action keeps you protected and gives your child a better chance at feeling safe and supported.